Traveling as a couple is often portrayed as a dreamy, romantic getaway, but let's be real – it can also be a test of patience and teamwork! Our love story began on a backpacking trip in the Grand Canyon, where we faced challenges like Jen's recovery from multiple knee replacement surgeries. Despite the trials, we came out stronger, fell in love, and eventually married. That experience inspired us to launch our own travel website.
After more than 12 years of exploring the world together, we've learned a thing or two about creating harmony on the road. We're sharing 25 tried-and-true strategies to ensure your journeys as a couple are filled with joy, connection, and unforgettable memories.
Plan your budget together
Money is one of the most common stressors among couples, so determine your budget in advance. Agree on spending limits and allocate funds for necessities such as accommodation, food, and activities. Once your budget is settled, you can focus on enjoying the trip without financial stress.
Align your expectations early
Discuss what you want from your trip before you go. Do you crave relaxation, adventure, or a combination of both? Set clear expectations for the level of luxury, activities and pace of travel to avoid misunderstandings later.
Bring your sense of humor
Things will go wrong, such as flight delays, wrong turns, or unexpected rainstorms. Laugh at him! These moments often become some of the most memorable stories. A shared sense of humor can turn mishaps into adventures.
Create shared rituals
Developing travel rituals can bring comfort amidst unfamiliar surroundings. Whether you enjoy your morning coffee together or reflect on your day each evening, these small routines create lasting memories.
Don't let hunger win
Hungry travelers are angry travelers. Prioritize meals and keep snacks on hand. We learned this the hard way – Ed needs breakfast as soon as he wakes up, while I prefer to sleep. Finding balance saves us from a thirsty start to the day.
Practice active listening
Good communication is essential on the road. Listen to your partner's ideas, concerns, and suggestions without judgment. Use “I” statements to share your feelings and avoid defensiveness.
Show love through small gestures
Romantic surprises go a long way. A handwritten note, a small gift, or even a spontaneous kiss under a gorgeous sunset can deepen your bond. Remember your partner's love language and pay attention to it.
Divide and conquer
Share the workload by assigning tasks. One of you may handle the transportation while the others book accommodation. For us, Ed leads while I manage the social interactions, a division that plays to our strengths.
Master the art of compromise
You will have different interests, embrace them! Take turns choosing activities, or find ways to incorporate both preferences into a shared experience. This keeps decision fatigue at bay and ensures everyone feels heard.
Be patient and tolerant
Traveling can test your patience. Remember that your partner's quirks are part of what makes them unique. Embrace differences, focus on the bigger picture, and create wonderful memories together.
Celebrate strengths and weaknesses
The traits you love in your partner may sometimes frustrate you down the road. We realize that these qualities are two sides of the same coin. Rely on your partner's strengths, and accept his or her flaws with grace.
Avoid playing the blame game
When things go wrong, resist the urge to point fingers. Instead, work as a team to find solutions. Acknowledge your role in the situation and move forward together.
Forgive quickly and let go
Mistakes and disagreements will occur. Forgive freely and focus on enjoying the moment rather than holding onto grudges. We like to joke about using “get out of jail free” cards in travel accidents.
Be kind above all
Kindness is the glue that holds relationships together. A small act of kindness, like carrying your partner's bag or offering a comforting word, can make a big difference.
Keep an open mind
Travel challenges you to embrace new cultures, cuisines, and ideas. Step out of your comfort zone together, and look at unfamiliar experiences as opportunities to grow as a couple.
Plans for balance and spontaneity
While having an itinerary is great, leave room for chance. Some of the best moments come from spontaneous detours or unplanned encounters.
Prioritize date nights
Make time for romance during your travels. Whether it's a fancy dinner or stargazing, these moments remind you why you're on this adventure together.
Push each other to grow
Encourage each other to try new things, whether it's an adrenaline-pumping activity or connecting with the locals. Growth happens outside your comfort zone.
Live in the moment
Put down your phone and immerse yourself in the present. Share a meaningful glance, breathe in the beauty around you, and enjoy every second together.
Express gratitude daily
Take time to thank your partner for the little things he or she does during the trip. Gratitude strengthens your bonds and reminds you how lucky you are to share these experiences.
Carving out solo time
Even when traveling as a couple, spending a little time alone is healthy. Whether you're walking alone or reading a book, personal space can recharge your energy.
Make new friends
Engage with fellow travelers and locals. New friendships add richness to your journey and broaden your perspective.
Enjoy the ride
The true magic of travel lies in the journey itself. Embrace the highs and lows, and enjoy the adventure of exploring the world side by side.
Couples who travel together stay together
Traveling strengthens your bond and creates memories that last a lifetime. With these 25 tips, you'll be ready to pack your bags, explore the world, and get closer every step of the journey.
Are you ready to embark on your next adventure? Which of these tips would you try? Let us know, and happy travels!
Hello! We are Jane and Ed Coleman also known as Coleman Concierge. In short, we are a 10th generation couple from Huntsville sharing our stories of amazing adventures through transformative and experiential activity-based travel.
